Как вырастить хорошего человека. Научно обоснованные стратегии для осознанных родителей [заметки]

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Копинг-стратегии – сознательные, рациональные способы преодоления жизненных трудностей. Понятие объединяет когнитивные, эмоциональные и поведенческие стратегии, которые использует человек, чтобы справляться со стрессовыми ситуациями. Прим. ред.

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