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Джордж Вашингтон. Письмо Джону Огастину Вашингтону от 31 мая 1754 года.

Джордж Вашингтон. Письмо Роберту Динвидди от 3 июня 1754 года.

Ron Chernow. Washington: A Life. Penguin, 2010, p. 49.

Во всей книге основные термины, инструменты и выводы выделены жирным шрифтом для того, чтобы было легче на них ссылаться. Прим. ред.

Издана на русском языке: Рамачандран В. Мозг рассказывает. Что делает нас людьми. — М.: Карьера Пресс, 2016. Прим. ред.

Vilayanur S. Ramachandran. The Tell-Tale Brain: A Neuroscientist’s Quest for What Makes Us Human. W. W. Norton & Company, 2012, p. 4. (Рамачандран В. Мозг рассказывает. Что делает нас людьми. М.: Карьера Пресс, 2016.)

Mark R. Leary and Nicole R. Buttermore. «The evolution of the human self: Tracing the natural history of self-awareness.» Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour 33.4 (2003): 365–404.

Donna Hart and Robert W. Sussman. Man the Hunted: Primates, Predators, and Human Evolution. Basic Books, 2005, pp. 159–164.

Этот вывод сделан на основе нашей программы изучения самоосознания.

D. Scott Ridley, et al. «Self-regulated learning: The interactive influence of metacognitive awareness and goal-setting.» Journal of Experimental Education 60.4 (1992): 293–306; Saundra H. Glover, et al. «Re-examining the influence of individual values on ethical decision making.» From the Universities to the Marketplace: The Business Ethics Journey. Springer Netherlands, 1997. 109–119.

Stephen L. Franzoi, Mark H. Davis, and Richard D. Young. «The effects of private self-consciousness and perspective taking on satisfaction in close relationships.» Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 48.6 (1985): 1584–1594.

Clive Fletcher and Caroline Bailey. «Assessing self-awareness: Some issues and methods.» Journal of Managerial Psychology 18.5 (2003): 395–404; John J. Sosik and Lara E. Megerian. «Understanding leader emotional intelligence and performance: The role of self-other agreement on transformational leadership perceptions.» Group & Organization Management 24.3 (1999): 367–390.

Heather K. Warren and Cynthia A. Stifter. «Maternal emotion-related socialization and preschoolers’ developing emotion self-awareness.» Social Development 17.2 (2008): 239–258.

Vladimir D. Shadrikov. «The role of reflection and reflexivity in the development of students’ abilities.» Psychology in Russia: State of the Art 6.2 (2013).

Chris Brown, Roberta George-Curran, and Marian L. Smith. «The role of emotional intelligence in the career commitment and decision-making process.» Journal of Career Assessment 11.4 (2003): 379–392; Romila Singh and Jeffrey H. Greenhaus. «The relation between career decision-making strategies and person-job fit: A study of job changers.» Journal of Vocational Behavior 64.1 (2004): 198–221.

Paul J. Silvia and Maureen E. O’Brien. «Self-awareness and constructive functioning: Revisiting ‘the human dilemma.’» Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 23.4 (2004): 475, 480–481.

Anna Sutton, Helen M. Williams, and Christopher W. Allinson. «A longitudinal, mixed method evaluation of self-awareness training in the workplace.» European Journal of Training and Development 39.7 (2015): 610–627.

Peter Fischer, Tobias Greitemeyer, and Dieter Frey. «Unemployment and aggression: The moderating role of self-awareness on the effect of unemployment on aggression.» Aggressive Behavior 34.1 (2008): 34–45.

См. Paul J. Silvia and Maureen E. O’Brien. «Selfawareness and constructive functioning: Revisiting ‘the human dilemma.’» Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 23.4 (2004): 475, 479–480.

Allan H. Church, «Managerial self-awareness in high-performing individuals in organizations.» Journal of Applied Psychology 82.2 (1997): 281–292.

Bass and Yammarino, «Congruence of self and others’ leadership ratings»; Malcolm Higgs and Deborah Rowland. «Emperors with clothes on: The role of self-awareness in developing effective change leadership.» Journal of Change Management 10.4 (2010): 369–385.

Kenneth N. Wexley, et al. «Attitudinal congruence and similarity as related to interpersonal evaluations in manager-subordinate dyads.» Academy of Management Journal 23.2 (1980): 320–330.

Atuma Okpara, et al. «Self awareness and organizational performance in the Nigerian banking sector.» European Journal of Research and Reflection in Management Sciences 3.1 (2015); Harry Schrage. «The R&D entrepreneur: Profile of success.» Harvard Business Review, November — December, 1965, 56–69; Korn Ferry Institute. «Korn Ferry Institute study shows link between self-awareness and company financial performance,» kornferry.com, June 15, 2015, http://www.kornferry.com/press/korn-ferry-institute-study-shows-link-between-self-awareness-andcompany-fnancial-performance/.

PDI Ninth House. «Accurate self-insight decreases derailment risk,» Leadership Research Bulletin, January 24, 2013, http://www.kornferry.com/institute/565-accurate-self-insight-decreasesderailment-risk.

J. Evelyn Orr, Victoria V. Swisher, King Y. Tang, and Kenneth De Meuse. «Illuminating blind spots and hidden strengths,» kornferry.com, September 2010, http://www.kornferry.com/media/lominger_pdf/Insights_Illuminating_Blind_Spots_and_Hidden_Strengths.pdf.

University of Phoenix School of Business. «Nearly three-fourths of US workers in their 30s want a career change,» University of Phoenix News release, July 29, 2015, http://www.phoenix.edu/news/releases/2015/07/uopx-survey-reveals-three-fourths-us-workers-intheir-thirties-want-career-change.html; http://www.bls.gov/news.release/pdf/nlsoy.pdf.

Издана на русском языке: Бредбери Т., Гривс Дж. Эмоциональный интеллект 2.0. — М.: Манн, Иванов и Фербер, 2017. Прим. ред.

Меня часто спрашивают о том, как самоосознание связано с эмоциональным интеллектом. Простыми словами, суть эмоционального интеллекта сводится к осознанию и регулированию собственных эмоций и эмоций окружающих, тогда как самоосознание — гораздо более широкое понятие, охватывающее наши внутренние качества, выходящие за рамки эмоций (наши ценности, увлечения, стремления, подходящие условия, паттерны, реакции и влияние на других людей), а также то, как нас воспринимают окружающие. Прим. ред.

David Dunning, Chip Heath, and Jerry M. Suls. «Flawed self-assessment implications for health, education, and the workplace.» Psychological Science in the Public Interest 5.3 (2004): 69–106.

W. W. Abbot, «An Uncommon Awareness of Self,» Prologue: Quarterly Journal of the National Archives and Records Administration 29 (1989): 7–19; repr. in George Washington Reconsidered, ed. Don Higginbotham (University Press of Virginia: 2001).

Chernow, p. 603.

Chernow., p. 603.

Chernow., p. 521.

Chernow., p. 378.

Chernow., p. 560.

Если вам интересно знать, достаточно ли выборки из 50 человек, для того чтобы сделать значимые выводы, важно обратить внимание на разницу между количественными и качественными исследованиями. Хотя большая часть наших исследований носила количественный характер (мы предлагали участникам опроса дать количественную оценку предложенных позиций), наш анализ «единорогов самоосознания» был качественным по сути. Качественное исследование подразумевает более глубокое изучение каждого участника — в нашем случае это происходило в ходе продолжительных бесед — для обнаружения общих тем и закономерностей. Для качественного исследования 50 участников — это действительно достаточно много, особенно учитывая то, что «единорогов» было так трудно найти!

CEO — генеральный директор компании. Прим. ред.

«INEC Officially Announces Buhari as Winner of Presidential Race,» pulse.ng, April 1, 2015, http://pulse.ng/politics/nigeria-elections-2015-inec-officially-announces-buhari-as-winner-of-presidential-race-id3619743.html.

В состав Мезоамерики входил полуостров Юкатан, Гватемала, Белиз, Мексика и западные районы Гондураса и Сальвадора. Прим. ред.

По материалам History.com. «Mayan scientific achievements,» History.com, 2010, http://www.history.com/topics/mayan-scientifc-achievements.

Michon Scott. «Mayan mysteries,» earthobservatory.nasa.gov, August 24, 2004, http://earthobservatory.nasa.gov/Features/Maya/.

Издана на русском языке: Даймонд Дж. Коллапс. Почему одни общества приходят к процветанию, а другие — к гибели. — М.: АСТ, 2016. Прим. ред.

Billie L. Turner and Jeremy A. Sabloff. «Classic Period collapse of the Central Maya Lowlands: Insights about human — environment relationships for sustainability.» Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 109.35 (2012): 13908–13914.

Joseph Stromberg. «Why did the Mayan civilization collapse? A new study points to deforestation and climate change,» smithsonianmag.com, August 23, 2012, http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/why-did-the-mayan-civilization-collapse-a-new-study-points-to-deforestation-and-climate-change-30863026/?no-ist.

Brian Wu. «Blue hole of Belize may explain what happened to the Mayans,» sciencetimes.com, December 30, 2014, http://www.sciencetimes.com/articles/2257/20141230/blue-hole-of-belizemay-explain-what-happened-to-the-mayans.htm.

Greg C. Ashley and Roni Reiter-Palmon. «Selfawareness and the evolution of leaders: The need for a better measure of self-awareness.» Journal of Behavioral and Applied Management 14.1 (2012): 2–17.

D. Brett King, William Douglas Woody, and Wayne Viney. History of Psychology: Ideas and Context. Routledge, 2015.

Manfred F. R. Kets de Vries. Telling Fairy Tales in the Boardroom: How to Make Sure Your Organization Lives Happily Ever After. Palgrave Macmillan, 2015, p. 28.

Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe, Alei Shur, Volume 1. Bais Hamussar, 1968, p. 141.

Deborah L. Black. «Avicenna on self-awareness and knowing that one knows,» in S. Rahman et al. (eds.), The Unity of Science in the Arabic Tradition. Springer, 2008, pp. 63–87, http://individual.utoronto.ca/dlblack/articles/blackselfknrev.pdf.

Paul J. Silvia and T. Shelley Duval. «Objective self-awareness theory: Recent progress and enduring problems.» Personality and Social Psychology Review 5.3 (2001): 230–241.

Allan Fenigstein, Michael F. Scheier, and Arnold H. Buss. «Public and private self-consciousness: Assessment and theory.» Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 43.4 (1975): 522–527.

Paul D. Trapnell and Jennifer D. Campbell. «Private self-consciousness and the five-factor model of personality: Distinguishing rumination from reflection.» Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 76.2 (1999): 284–304.

Arthur I. Wohlers and Manuel London. «Ratings of managerial characteristics: evaluation difficulty, co-worker agreement, and self-awareness.» Personnel Psychology 42.2 (1989): 235–261.

John T. Kulas and Lisa M. Finkelstein. «Content and reliability of discrepancy-defined self-awareness in multisource feedback.» Organizational Research Methods 10.3 (2007): 502–522.

Однако есть несколько значимых исключений, таких как исследователь Энтони Грант; в главе 5 вы узнаете больше о его работе. Прим. ред.

Benjamin Franklin. The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin. Garden City Publishing Company, 1916. (Франклин Б. Путь к богатству. Автобиография. М.: Эксмо, 2015.)

The Independent Hall Association. «The electric Benjamin Franklin,» ushistory.org, http://www.ushistory.org/franklin/info/inventions.htm.

В англоязычных странах закрепилась традиция начинать неделю с воскресенья. Прим. ред.

Ben Huh. «I cheated on my life goals and life actually got better,» medium.com, August 27, 2015, https://medium.com/@benhuh/i-cheated-on-my-life-goals-and-life-actually-got-better-78121bdf1790#.al1gu1kan.

INTJ (сокр. от introversion, intuition, thinking, judging) — интроверсия, интуиция, мышление, суждение. Прим. пер.

Lucy Ash. «Personality tests: Can they indentify the real you?» BBC News Magazine, July 6, 2012, http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-18723950.

Jeffrey A. Joireman, Les Parrott III, and Joy Hammersla. «Empathy and the self-absorption paradox: Support for the distinction between self-rumination and self-reflection.» Self and Identity 1.1 (2002): 53–65.

Хотелось бы поблагодарить Чипа Хиза за то, что он сообщил мне об этом исследовании! Eli J. Finkel, et al. «A brief intervention to promote conflict reappraisal preserves marital quality over time.» Psychological Science (2013): 1595–1601.

«The children we mean to raise,» huffngtonpost.com, July 16, 2014, http://www.huffngtonpost.com/richard-weissbourd/the-children-we-mean-to-raise_b_5589259.html.

6 мая 1937 года при выполнении посадки на базе ВВС США жесткий дирижабль, наполненный водородом, завершая очередной трансатлантический рейс, загорелся и потерпел крушение, в результате погибло 35 из 97 находившихся на его борту человек, а также один член наземной команды. Прим. пер.

Charles Margerison and A. Kakabadse. «How American chief executives succeed.» New York: American Management Association (1984).

Seana Moran. «Purpose: Giftedness in intrapersonal intelligence.» High Ability Studies 20.2 (2009): 143–159.

Morgan W. McCall, Jr., Michael M. Lombardo, and Ann M. Morrison. Lessons of Experience: How Successful Executives Develop on the Job. Simon and Schuster, 1988, p. 96.

Morgan W. McCall, Jr., Michael M. Lombardo, and Ann M. Morrison. Lessons of Experience: How Successful Executives Develop on the Job. Simon and Schuster, 1988, p. 96., p. 91.

Джош Биллингс (1818–1885) — американский писатель XIX столетия, настоящее имя Генри Уиллер Шоу. Прим. ред.

Daniel Kahneman. Thinking, Fast and Slow. Macmillan, 2011, p. 201. (Канеман Д. Думай медленно… решай быстро. М.: АСТ, 2013.)

Linda A. Schoo, et al. «Insight in cognition: Selfawareness of performance across cognitive domains.» Applied Neuropsychology: Adult 20.2 (2013): 95–102.

Pew Research Center. «Americans see weight problems everywhere but in the mirror,» pewsocialtrends.org, April 11, 2006, http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2006/04/11/americans-see-weight-problemseverywhere-but-in-the-mirror/.

Nicholas Epley and Erin Whitchurch. «Mirror, mirror on the wall: Enhancement in self-recognition.» Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin 34.9 (2008): 1159–1170.

Paul A. Mabe and Stephen G. West. «Validity of self-evaluation of ability: A review and meta-analysis.» Journal of Applied Psychology 67.3 (1982): 180–196.

Richard B. Felson. «Self-and reflected appraisal among football players: A test of the Meadian hypothesis.» Social Psychology Quarterly (1981): 116–126.

Paul A. Mabe and Stephen G. West. «Validity of self-evaluation of ability: A review and meta-analysis.» Journal of Applied Psychology 67.3 (1982): 180–196.

По мнению половины водителей, они принадлежат к числу 20 процентов лучших по способности управлять автомобилем, а 92 процента водителей считают, что водят автомобиль более безопасно по сравнению со средним водителем! Ola Svenson. «Are we all less risky and more skillful than our fellow drivers?» Acta Psychologica 47.2 (1981): 143–148.

Paul A. Mabe and Stephen G. West. «Validity of self-evaluation of ability: A review and meta-analysis.» Journal of Applied Psychology 67.3 (1982): 180–196.

Todd R. Zenger. «Why do employers only reward extreme performance? Examining the relationships among performance, pay, and turnover.» Administrative Science Quarterly (1992): 198–219.

K. Patricia Cross. «Not can but will college teaching be improved?» New Directions for Higher Education, 17, (1977): 1–15.

D. A. Risucci, A. J. Tortolani, and R. J. Ward. «Ratings of surgical residents by self, supervisors and peers.» Surgery, Gynecology & Obstetrics 169.6 (1989): 519–526.

Erich C. Dierdorff and Robert S. Rubin. «Research: We’re not very self-aware, especially at work,» Harvard Business Review, March 12, 2015, https://hbr.org/2015/03/research-werenot-very-self-aware-especially-at-work.

«Study shows link between self-awareness and company financial performance,» Korn Ferry Institute, June 15, 2015, http://www.kornferry.com/press/korn-ferry-institute-study-shows-linkbetween-self-awareness-and-company-fnancial-performance/.

PDI Ninth House. «You’re not all that: Self-promoters six times more likely to derail,» prnewswire.com, April 17, 2012, http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/youre-not-all-that-selfpromoters-six-times-more-likely-to-derail-according-to-pdi-ninth-houseand-university-of-minnesota-study-147742375.html.

David Dunning. «On identifying human capital: Flawed knowledge leads to faulty judgments of expertise by individuals and groups.» Advances in Group Processes. Emerald Group Publishing Limited, 2015, pp. 149–176.

Ulrike Malmendier and Geoffrey Tate. «CEO overconfidence and corporate investment.» Journal of Finance 60.6 (2005): 2661–2700.

Fabio Sala. «Executive blind spots: Discrepancies between self-and other-ratings.» Consulting Psychology Journal: Practice and Research 55.4 (2003): 222–229.

Cheri Ostroff, Leanne E. Atwater, and Barbara J. Feinberg. «Understanding self-other agreement: A look at rater and rater characteristics, context, and outcomes.» Personnel Psychology 57.2 (2004): 333–375.

По некоторым данным, в общем случае мы более точно оцениваем себя в возрасте от 25 до 35 лет, но эта точность снижается в возрасте от 35 до 45 лет. Кроме того, поразительно, что, в отличие от студентов, изучающих естествознание, социологию и гуманитарные науки, студенты бизнес-факультетов сильнее всего завышали свою самооценку относительно объективной эффективности [Phillip L. Ackerman, Margaret E. Beier, and Kristy R. Bowen. «What we really know about our abilities and our knowledge.» Personality and Individual Differences 33 (2002): 587–605.]. Прим. ред.

John W. Fleenor, et al. «Self-other rating agreement in leadership: A review.» The Leadership Quarterly 21.6 (2010): 1005–1034.

Margaret Diddams and Glenna C. Chang. «Only human: Exploring the nature of weakness in authentic leadership.» The Leadership Quarterly 23.3 (2012): 593–603.

Alison Boulton. «Power corrupts but it also plays with your mind: Lloyd George, Chamberlain, and Thatcher all suffered from ‘hubris syndrome,’» independent.co.uk, September 21, 2013, http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/healthnews/power-corrupts-but-it-also-plays-with-your-mind-lloyd-georgechamberlain-and-thatcher-all-suffered-8831839.html.

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Результаты этого исследования, проводившегося в 1976 году (когда представители послевоенного поколения учились в колледжах), свидетельствуют о том, что представители поколения миллениалов не были первыми в этой закономерности! И я, будучи представительницей этого поколения, совершенно объективно заявляю об этом. Прим. ред.

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Этот вывод основан на результатах наших исследований по теме самоосознания. См. также: Andreas Demetriou and Karin Bakracevic. «Reasoning and self-awareness from adolescence to middle age: Organization and development as a function of education.» Learning and Individual Differences 19.2 (2009): 181–194.

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Информация для любителей статистики: мы установили, что коэффициент корреляции между возрастом и внутренним самоосознанием составляет всего 0,16, а в случае внешнего самоосознания равен 0,05. Прим. ред.

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В своей книге на эту тему «Думай медленно… Решай быстро» (М.: АСТ, Neoclassic, 2017) Дэниел Канеман называет эти процессы «думать быстро» и «думать медленно» соответственно. Прим. ред.

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Оформить подписку можно на сайте www.TashaEurich.com. Прим. ред.

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Благодарю своих друзей Майка Геррона и Чака Блейкмена за эту мысль.

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Журналист Эллисон Пирсон рисует весьма интересную картину того, что произошло бы, если бы такая философия применялась в сфере дипломатических отношений Великобритании в период Второй мировой войны: Дорогой господин Гитлер! Вы исчерпали наше терпение. Пожалуйста, отдайте назад Польшу, или это серьезно скажется на нашем благополучии. С любовью, Британия. Прим. ред.

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На протяжении всей книги цитаты единорогов самоосознания приводятся почти дословно; я внесла несколько небольших изменений, для того чтобы повысить читабельность этих цитат, не меняя при этом их смысл. Прим. ред.

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Если вы заинтересованы в изучении других методов повышения уровня самопринятия, настоятельно рекомендую вам посетить сайт Кристин Нефф: http://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/. Прим. ред.

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Хочу поблагодарить клинического психолога, который поделился со мной этим примером. Я не называю имени этого психолога, для того чтобы сохранить конфиденциальность его пациента.

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Todd Dufresne. «Psychoanalysis is dead… so how does that make you feel?» latimes.com, February 18, 2004, http://articles.latimes.com/2004/feb/18/opinion/oe-dufresne18.

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По правде говоря, психоанализ получил дальнейшее развитие: многие подходы XXI столетия направлены на то, чтобы сформировать у клиентов всеобъемлющее представление о себе вместо попыток открыть дверь запертого подвала. На самом деле это очень напоминает подход под названием «жизненная история», о котором идет речь в главе 6. Прим. ред.

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Здесь важно отметить, что в моем понимании психотерапия не включает практику коучинга лидеров и руководителей, которая связана скорее с применением подхода, ориентированного на поиск решений (мы поговорим о нем в главе 6). Прим. ред.

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Руминация — в психиатрии навязчивый тип мышления, при котором одни и те же темы или мысли постоянно возникают в голове человека, вытесняя все другие виды психической активности. Прим. ред.

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Еще один замечательный пример этого феномена можно найти в недавнем увлекательном исследовании: Mitesh Kataria and Tobias Regner. «Honestly, why are you donating money to charity? An experimental study about self-awareness in status-seeking behavior.» Theory and Decision 79.3 (2015): 493–515.

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Эффект новизны — психологический феномен, который проявляется в том, что при восприятии человека человеком по отношению к знакомой персоне наиболее значимой и запоминающейся оказывается последняя новая информация о ней, тогда как по отношению к незнакомой персоне наиболее значима впервые появившаяся информация, создающая первое впечатление о человеке. Прим. ред.

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Высокоэффективные руководители составляли верхние 10 процентов, а руководители с низким уровнем эффективности — нижние 10 процентов. Joseph Folkman. «Top ranked leaders know this secret: ask for feedback,» forbes.com, January 8, 2015, http://www.forbes.com/sites/joefolkman/2015/01/08/top-ranked-leaders-know-this-secret-ask-forfeedback/#b958b9e608fe.

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Информация для тех, кто не знаком с этой моделью: вы узнаете, что вам следует делать из того, что вы еще не делаете; что следует прекратить делать из того, что не приносит вам пользы; а также что следует продолжать делать, чтобы добиться успеха. Прим. ред.

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Однако, выпив больше, чем следует, вы рискуете оказаться в ситуации с переворачиванием столов в духе телешоу «Настоящие домохозяйки из Нью-Джерси». Прим. ред.

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Этот эффект наблюдался только в тех случаях, когда девочки играли против мальчиков со средним или высоким уровнем мастерства, в отличие от соперников с низким уровнем мастерства. Прим. ред.

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В ходе одного исследования пациенты с диагнозом «рак груди I и II стадии», которые выполнили упражнение на самоутверждение, через три месяца лучше справлялись со стрессом (и у них даже меньше проявлялись физические симптомы болезни) по сравнению с пациентами, не выполнявшими упражнение. Прим. ред.

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Один из членов совета директоров назвал эту короткую, но вдохновенную речь самым трогательным выступлением, которое он когда-либо слышал в зале заседаний совета. Прим. ред.

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Здесь перечислены ожидаемые нормы поведения и культура: люди в первую очередь; все вовлечены в процесс; убедительное видение, всеобъемлющая стратегия и неуклонная ее реализация; четкие целевые показатели эффективности; один план; факты и данные; все знают план, текущее положение дел в области, требующих особого внимания; предложить план; позитивная установка «найти способ»; уважать, выслушивать и быть признательными друг другу; эмоциональная устойчивость… доверие к процессу; весело проводить время; получать удовольствие от этого путешествия и друг от друга. Прим. ред.

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Далио сформулировал свое кредо в виде документа на 123 страницы, который содержит 201 его самый твердый принцип жизни и управления. Новые сотрудники обязаны ознакомиться с этим фолиантом; кроме того, Далио часто использует его в качестве основы для ночных домашних заданий, которые должны выполнять сотрудники. Прим. ред.

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Процедура основана на идеях, почерпнутых из превосходной книги Патрика Ленсиони The Five Dysfunctions of a Team (Книга издана на русском языке: Ленсиони П. Пять пороков команды. М.: Манн, Иванов и Фербер, 2017.), которую, на мой взгляд, должны прочитать все действующие и будущие менеджеры. Прим. ред.

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Если команда еще не знакома с моделью получения обратной связи 3R, о которой шла речь в главе 8, я настоятельно рекомендую вам кратко описать этот процесс, прежде чем знакомить членов команды с этими правилами. Прим. ред.

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Меня часто спрашивают, почему я предлагаю именно такой порядок: все члены команды отвечают сначала на вопрос 1, а затем на вопросы 2 и 3, вместо того чтобы давать ответы на все вопросы сразу. Во-первых, получение ответов всех членов команды на один и тот же вопрос, в отличие от ответов на все вопросы, — это лучший способ обнаружить закономерности. Во-вторых, на мой взгляд, желание дать ответы на все вопросы сразу же часто обусловлено ошибочным стремлением смягчить негативный отзыв («Если я сначала скажу Дагу, что мне в нем нравится, мне будет легче сказать ему о том, что мне не нравится»). Однако такой подход не позволяет сформировать непреходящую культуру искренности. Члены команды с высоким уровнем самоосознания делают усилие над собой и, придерживаясь основных правил, вступают в открытый диалог! Прим. ред.

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Психологический дискомфорт, вызванный столкновением в сознании человека противоречивых знаний, убеждений, поведенческих установок относительно некоторого объекта или явления. Прим. ред.

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Если вы читаете это примечание, значит, вы человек с научным складом ума. Да, строго говоря, сверхновые — это умирающие звезды, но, я надеюсь, вы запомните дух этой цитаты!

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